Terms of Membership
The agreement, in plain language.
Membership is selective
The First 50 is an invitation-only network for femme-for-femme lesbians. The founding cohort is designed for ages 30–45 and capped at 50 approved, publication-ready members. You must be at least 18 to apply. Completing the eligibility screening does not guarantee acceptance, and acceptance does not guarantee a romantic match.
What you agree to provide
Accurate answers about yourself, a short introduction video, and 3–4 recent, high-resolution photographs. We review media for technical quality only — never for attractiveness. Please only upload images of yourself.
Publication
Your lookbook is yours. You approve the final published version, and your profile enters the members-only collection only with your explicit publication consent, which you can withdraw at any time. The curator may suggest editorial revisions; you decide whether to accept them.
Conduct
Treat every member's story with the same care you would want for yours. No harassment, no sharing another member's profile, photographs, or words outside the collection, and no commercial use of anything you see here.
The retreat
The retreat is being explored, not confirmed. Anticipated pricing is $3,000–$5,000 per person, with separate paid registration and limited capacity. Indicating interest is an expression of interest only — it is not a payment, a booking, or a guarantee of a place, and it does not guarantee a romantic match.
Leaving
You can withdraw your publication consent, request account deletion, and ask us to delete your application and media at any time from your settings.
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